Here’s the thing. I do believe in soul mates. But I believe that we have a number of soul mates that come and go from our lives as they are meant to. And not all of the relationships you have with soul mates will be sexual. I don’t believe that there is only one other person out in the world who is meant for us.
I have friends that I connect with more deeply than my relatives. I’ve had boyfriends that I didn’t understand at all. Soul mates are people who help you grow and change you for the better. They are people who will be there for you and who get you.
I know popular opinion is that your soul mate is the one person you choose to spend the rest of your life with – should you be of the monogamous persuasion. But I don’t define soul mates in this way.
My ideal kind of relationship is a monogamous one.
Is any of this making sense?